It’s Rarely What You Think
Behind the picture perfect social media highlight reels the truth exists. Something I was reluctantly reminded of during our anniversary trip to Mexico.
“I’m so sorry, I need to run to the bathroom real quick.”
I said that a lot over the last few days. I always add the “real quick” at the end. I am rarely actually quick.
This is nothing new for me. At least not in the last three-plus years. Marc is very used to hearing it. He has always been incredibly understanding and supportive of me and what I need to do. He never complains and is always concerned for my wellbeing. He’s always checking in and asking what he can do to help me feel better. And he always has his phone handy. Just in case. It’s necessary when you suddenly find yourself alone as often as he does.
We just spent a long weekend in Mexico to celebrate our eight-year anniversary. Three years ago we left Mari for the first time to celebrate our five year anniversary—also in Mexico—and vowed we would always go away, just the two of us, once every year. Even if it’s just for a night. That alone time is necessary for us to reconnect and recharge. Raising a toddler is no joke.
It was a beautiful long weekend. The weather was perfect, the drinks were flowing, the food was great, and the relaxation was exactly what we needed. But that’s not exactly the whole story. Because for every pretty picture I posted on Instagram there were plenty of moments that definitely weren’t making the grid.
As is life.
